TY - BOOK AU - Hicks,Donna AU - Tutu,Desmond TI - Dignity : the essential role it plays in resolving conflict SN - 9780300188059 AV - JC591 .H53 2011 U1 - 305 22 PY - 2011/// CY - New Haven PB - Yale University Press KW - Human rights KW - Dignity KW - Social rights KW - Social conflict KW - Reconciliation N1 - Includes bibliographical references (p. 211-215) and index; Introduction : a new model of dignity -- The ten essential elements of dignity -- Acceptance of identity -- Inclusion -- Safety -- Acknowledgment -- Recognition -- Fairness -- Benefit of the doubt -- Understanding -- Independence -- Accountability -- The ten temptations to violate dignity -- Taking the bait -- Saving face -- Shirking responsibility -- Seeking false dignity -- Seeking false security -- Avoiding conflict -- Being the victim -- Resisting feedback -- Blaming and shaming others to deflect your own guilt -- Engaging in false intimacy and demeaning gossip -- How to heal relationships with dignity -- Reconciling with dignity -- Dignity's promise ER -